Are you familiar with the saying, "nice guys finish last?"
A lot of men get stuck on this particular challenge, because at heart they enjoy being nice and kind to the women in their life.
Now, there's nothing wrong with being nice and kind, and the answer to your dating challenges is absolutely NOT to just become an asshole.
What I mean when I talk about nice guys is the kind of men who complain about their problems with women by saying "But I'm such a nice guy, when will she realize!" and who often hear women saying to them "you’re just too nice," and “I like you, but as a friend.”
See, the problem "nice guys" face is that they aren't actually nice.
Nice guys think they are being generous, but ultimately their version of generosity doesn’t get them anywhere with women.
There’s a reason for that! (And no, it’s not that women don’t like being treated well.)
In reality, their seemingly "nice" behavior is only motivated by attempts to passively please women into relationships and/or sex.
Being “nice” in order to get something in return isn’t giving. It’s actually taking. It’s having a hidden agenda.
It’s manipulative, and women can see through it.
The first step to breaking free from "Nice Guy Syndrome" is to be real and stop being overly nice. Stop trying to please everybody!
Nice guys are afraid of conflict, which is why they feign being nice instead of leading with their true feelings
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