That’s positive inception.
You walk around all day and your emotions are constantly affecting everybody around you.
Whether you are aware of what emotions you are feeling and how you are affecting people is entirely a different thing.
The best leaders in the world, the best motivators in the world have this ability to transfer emotion to you, to get you excited, to get you feeling the emotion.
As humans we are always feeling each other's emotions, but because of language and our analytical minds, we’ve lost the awareness of that ability, especially men.
When you are being analytical you check out of your body and your emotions are shut off. At times it’s a lack of feeling emotion or just feeling of nervousness or anxiety.
There’s a reason I feel strongly about using pick lines.
Just because you can say the words doesn't mean the emotions are there. Pick up lines fall flat because a lot of men can deliver the words, but it never lands because there’s no emotion in what they are saying.
Unfortunately, as men we tend to have less awareness compared to women or we are too numbed out and are numbed out feeling nothing at all.
The same way that you feel a transference of emotion when you watch a phenomenal actor on screen. Women can feel the transference of your emotions.
So when you are feeling fear, anxiety, anger, or apathy what is she feeling when you approach her?
That’s right, depending on how you feel light or heavy – she’ll feel that.
And that's what positive inception is all about. The ability to do that is a skill set that can be learned.
Being emotionally aware and vulnerable doesn’t mean you are a wimp or weak.
Learning the skill of positive inception is just expressing yourself and becoming a master of your emotions especially when you step into tension.